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The average 'all-in' cost of a date in the U.S., including dinner, drinks, transportation, and pre-date grooming, was $189 in early 2026, up 12.5% from $168 a year earlier.
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Gen Z reported spending an average of $205 per date in 2026, up from $194 in 2025.
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Millennials reported spending an average of $252 per date in 2026, a 32% increase from the prior year.
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Half of Gen Z respondents and 40% of millennials said the cost of dating is interfering with their financial goals.
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Average restaurant menu prices in the U.S. rose 31% between February 2020 and April 2025.
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The National Restaurant Association attributed rising restaurant prices to inflation straining restaurant operations.
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Tinder’s monthly active users in March 2026 were down 7% compared to March 2025.
Spencer Rascoff, CEO of Match Group
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Match Group CEO Spencer Rascoff said traditional dating apps are 'highly structured and can be intimidating to a user under 30.'
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As of January 2025, 86% of U.S. adults aged 18 to 24 were single.
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As of January 2025, 42% of U.S. adults aged 25 to 39 were single.
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In 1990, 29% of U.S. adults aged 25–54 were unpartnered; by 2019, that figure rose to 38%.
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A 2026 global survey of 14,380 adults across the U.S., U.K., Latin America, the E.U., Australia, and South Africa found that nearly half of adults aged 18 to 34 said being single feels more peaceful than being in a relationship.
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In the same survey, 42% of respondents aged 18 to 34 said relationships interfere with personal goals, financial stability, or self-development.
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In the same survey, 33% of respondents aged 18 to 34 said they are actively avoiding dating to protect their mental well-being.
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In the same survey, 51% of respondents said independence has become more important to them over the past three years.
Sarah Meyer, managing director at MyIQ
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Sarah Meyer, managing director at MyIQ, said, 'I would be cautious about framing it as either a purely philosophical shift or a purely financial one.'
Sarah Meyer, managing director at MyIQ
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Sarah Meyer said, 'The affordability squeeze is clearly part of the context, because dating now sits alongside rent pressure, career instability, subscription costs, social expectations, and the general cost of maintaining an active social life.'
Sarah Meyer, managing director at MyIQ
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Sarah Meyer said, 'Many younger adults are no longer treating relationships as proof of stability. They are asking whether a relationship adds to their sense of safety, focus, and self-understanding, or whether it introduces instability they have worked hard to avoid.'
Sarah Meyer, managing director at MyIQ
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Sarah Meyer said open-ended survey responses from young adults sounded 'like people describing relief, routine, and control.'
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A 28-year-old U.S. respondent in the MyIQ survey described relationships as emotionally disruptive after years of dating-related anxiety and said being alone felt calmer.
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In the MyIQ survey, 46% of respondents said dating apps have made relationships feel more disposable.
Jason Fierstein, licensed professional counselor
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Jason Fierstein, a licensed professional counselor and founder of Phoenix Men’s Counseling, said, 'During COVID, people got burned out on dating apps swiping through people because they’re just looking at a profile and appearances instead of forming a meaningful connection.'
Jason Fierstein, licensed professional counselor
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Jason Fierstein said, 'People often say, “I don’t want to keep swiping on people or going out on unsuccessful dates that go nowhere.”'
Jason Fierstein, licensed professional counselor
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Jason Fierstein said, 'That’s understandable, but the problem is it tends to glorify this independent type of lifestyle.'
Jason Fierstein, licensed professional counselor
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Jason Fierstein said solo maxxing often 'tries to reframe or justify an economic constraint as a lifestyle choice.'
Jason Fierstein, licensed professional counselor
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Jason Fierstein said, 'Studies show loneliness and isolation from not having a partner carry as much health risk and concern as long-term smoking.'
Jason Fierstein, licensed professional counselor
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Jason Fierstein said solo maxxing is 'avoidance dressed up as self-care.'
Jess Carbino, sociologist
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Jess Carbino, a sociologist with a Ph.D. from UCLA and former in-house sociologist for Tinder and Bumble, said, 'Although partnership has declined over the last 20 years, especially among younger people, what is unique about [solo] maxxing is the intentional or active endorsement of the state of being intentionally single.'
Jess Carbino, sociologist
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Jess Carbino said, 'Solo maxxing represents a significant amount of avoidance to conflict and diminishes our ability to learn about ourselves and others.'
Marisa Ronquillo, licensed marriage and family therapist
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Marisa Ronquillo, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of Insightful Roots Therapy, said, 'Sometimes “I’m protecting my peace” is empowerment.'
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Marisa Ronquillo said, 'Sometimes it’s protective armor after burnout, betrayal, or chronic relational stress.'
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